However severe God’s guidance may seem to us at times, it’s always the guidance of a Father who is infinitely good, wise, and kind. He leads us to our goal by different paths. And after all . . . let’s be honest —isn’t it true that we tend to spoil the work of grace in us? So it’s to our advantage to experience the withdrawal of grace and abandonment by God. Then we must act as little children do in the dark — clasp the hand of father or mother, and go where we are led.

–Saint Julie Billiart (1751-1816)